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Is Being Single Making (or Keeping) You Poor?

Getting married might be the most important thing you could do to secure your financial future. So why don't more people think about this? And how much of a difference can marrying make?

Right now in America:

59% of Asian men are married.

54% of White men are married.

45% of Hispanic men are married.

36% of Black men are married.

These statistics are hot off the presses and from the wonderful researchers at Freakonomics. Let's now place them next to another report I first wrote about in my blog "6 Ways to Make Sure You NEVER Get Rich." This table refers to something called the "Racial Wealth Gap" using data from the U.S. Census Bureau: says that Black Americans are - on average - twenty-times poorer than White Americans according to the last Census. As I read the article, my mind starting racing. I knew things were bad, but this bad? How could this be? Why could this be? What can be done about it? This was crazy. The median white family has twenty times the net worth of the median black family. I'm being repetitive, but let that sink in for a second.

Hispanics in America are richer than blacks, too, though not quite by a factor of twenty-three. Hispanics are about twice as well off. Asians are between whites and Hispanics.

Something is clearly amiss.

When talking about wealth and income disparity, the less endowed often fall back on complaining - and complaining isn't a plan. Also, you'll notice it's only poor people who talk about income. Rich people talk about net worth. So, here's where we are. If you are not where you want to be financially, it is time to do something differently and do it now.

If you are not where you want to be financially, it is time to do something differently and do it now.

Maybe Marriage is the Simple Solution?

Maybe the thing that is most amiss is that too many Black Americans are single? Recall what I wrote before in 6 Ways to Make Sure You NEVER Get Rich:

You will (most likely) never get rich if you stay single. It is better to get married and stay married. Remaining single well into adulthood and divorce both destroy wealth, income, savings and stability. Not only will you destroy what you have worked for if you divorce, but you make it harder to come back up. Too many separate accounts, too much money going to employ child support office workers, two electric bills, too many people renting and not able to afford to own homes. In addition, it's been proven on top of proven that marriage accelerates wealth. Whoever thinks it's smarter to be single, has been duped for the most part.

Could it be that marrying (and presumably staying married) is the one big missing key in closing the wealth gap? I think so. I came across some interesting thoughts on the Freakonomics of Marriage the other day. I read a lot. I listen to a lot of podcasts. Some beg to be shared and this is one. The authors of Freakonomics produce a radio program on which they discuss elements of their writing and research. I pulled the above statistics from a broadcast called "Why Marry?"

First, if you aren't familiar with Freakonomics, it is a quite interesting exploration of the economic side of EVERYTHING... in this case, marriage. In fact, their discussion of the above stats are a part of their attempts to make possible ties to poverty and prosperity. So you know, these are academics with somewhat of a bias FOR marriage but a bias against what their Guest calls "Biblical" marriage. Therefore, you might listen aware of that and just digest the statistics. Still, an interesting discussion. Married people, in fact, have higher incomes.

It is entirely possible that people are poorer because they’re not marrying. It's also possible that they don’t marry because they’re poor. I won't retype their entire broadcast. Listen for yourself. As you do, ask yourself these questions: How costly is being single? Are we passing the penalties of our singleness on to our children? How can we reverse these trends?

Are we passing the penalties of our singleness on to our children?

I think a closer examination of marriage will reveal that there are many benefits beyond the obvious. I think we may owe it to society and to our generations to get married. What do you think? Want to start creating a different now for you and a different future for your children? Get your free copy of FROM BROKE TO BLESSED here:

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